Summertime Fun!

Welcome summer! Now is the time to expand your horizons and go on some wonderful adventures.

Nothing is better to renew the spark in your relationship than a full day out away from home. Not only do new places open your mind, the ride there often helps work out any kinks (since you should be talking with each other on the way!). Put down those cell phones. Instead, chat with your mate. How about making a list of all the things you'd love to do in life (like find a sand dollar on a beach or stand outside a stage door and meet a star)? Or the places you would love to visit together (Europe, all 50 states, or a remote island in the South Pacific)? Remember why you fell in love in the first place and share some fun stories about your collective past. It might just help you gain the future of your dreams!

Exploring is great for families, too. When our son was little and in a "funk" (nice word for taking too many tantrums!), our pediatrician always recommended taking him somewhere different. Changing the backdrop really helps - no matter what the age. New places get kids thinking, stimulate their senses, and most importantly, help them connect with you. Just think - you've got each other all to yourselves - away from home with little interruptions! No computer, tv, video games, work, chores, etc. to compete with - just each other. I know it sounds a bit scary - but really, time spent with kids is what they remember the most - not all the nice trinkets we buy them. Doesn't have to be anywhere fancy - just time well spent.

Summer is also a great time to reconnect with your friends. Grab a pal or two and enjoy some laughs together at someplace new. Maybe a new restaurant or an afternoon exploring Newburyport shops or even Martha's Vineyard? Friends sooth the soul and remind us who we are - not that person we often try to pretend to be. Let your hair down and escape! You deserve it!

Don't forget to check out my website for a list of lots of things to do in New England and New York. Also check out this link for a calendar of FREE ADMISSION to popular Massachusetts tourist spots on various Fridays this summer. Thanks, Alison B., for sharing this!

Got any other ideas to share about great summer fun? Please do! We'd all love to hear them!