The People We Meet

Recently, my son asked if I thought everything happened for a reason. Soda spilling, staining my shirt, and the printer running out of ink - not so much. But people meeting and interacting with each other - yes, I think we're on to something.

People come into our lives for a reason. And each of us has a purpose. A neat example of this can be found in the movie, "Lady in the Water" by M. Night Shyamalan. OK - so he's had a bad rap lately for making some less than memorable films - and some may think this one is not his best. However, it really touches on people coming together and serving a purpose. People who otherwise really have no reason to come together. Shyamalan used to tell this story to his kids at bedtime. It involves several people who live in the same apartment complex. Although the concept is a bit out there - it can really help those of us wrestling with less than perfect colleagues, relatives or aquaintances in our lives. Sometimes there is really more than meets the eye or what can be immediately felt or described.

Maybe your grouchy and gym-fascinated boss might be the "guardian". Or the child who never does her homework and only seems to dream about fairies and butterflies could be the "healer." And your crossword puzzle-obsessed, critical mother could be the "interpreter". The point is maybe we need to try harder to see past the traits we find offending or off-putting in order to see the bigger picture or purpose.

Thank goodness for those who aren't afraid to tackle danger (even if we consider their decisions sometimes rash) - else what would happen when there was a fire or crime? We'd have no books and movies if it weren't for those with incredible imaginations (who probably take hours just to pick out their clothes each morning!). And where would we be without our friends who naturally seem to "get" us and all of our own crazy hang-ups - those we hand-select to be part of our family.

So the next time people are driving you crazy and you can't seem to find a balance, you might check out "Lady in the Water" and daydream for a bit. People do come together for a greater good, even in simple everyday circumstances. It may not always be noticed - but it happens. Here's to paying attention to the little good deeds in our day that matter and have the ability to change the world...one person at a time.

Let the Adventures Begin!

Tired of being stuck inside all winter? Spring is finally here! Time to get outdoors, stretch, and begin exploring. So much to do and so little time! I recall reading an entry in one of the "Chicken Soup for the Soul" books about a teenage boy who made a Life's To Do list. He wanted to ride a camel, visit a rainforest, climb a mountain, learn to ski, visit many different countries, learn new languages, and so much more. And can you believe he actually accomplished most of them? His list had over 200 tasks, most of which would seem crazy to many of us. But he did them - and so can you.

Start today and make a list of just three places you'd like to visit or goals to set for yourself. Suggest one very reasonable, one in the middle, and one a bit far-fetched. Keep it on a post-it note in your planner or next to your bed. And try to make at least one happen by the end of the summer. Why not set-up a picnic in your living room this weekend and list places to visit with your partner or family and friends this summer? Spread a blanket, maybe buy a bucket of KFC or other fun picnic fare, & have popsicles for dessert!

To help you, I'm very excited to include the link to my most extensive Fun Local Adventures ideas yet! From walking in a forest with deer, to golfing in the dark, to adorable country stores, to an enormous trampoline, to drinking beer from a glass a yard long, there is something in here for everyone. It also includes ideas on how to connect with your teens or re-connect with your partner in addition to numerous kids' activities, too. Use it as a starting point to plan some fun days out. When kids get involved in the planning, it really helps them enjoy it more, too. Couples benefit in numerous ways when planning together - get ready for some romance as you dream about an exotic trip to the South Pacific and other destinations!

The list I've mentioned includes all of the links to the places listed, which saves you time. Click on the link and see if it is for you. I've tried to suggest less popular places and combined several sites in the same area, giving you ideas for Sunday drives, time out with those independent toddlers or teens, or a romantic evening at home. Please share the list with your friends! I will continue to update it and add some farther away destinations such as Niagara Falls and Baltimore, MD in May. So check back! We've been fortunate to visit all of the places on the list. I welcome your feedback, questions, and ideas.

The world is your oyster, my friends. Crack it open, grab the pearl, and never let go! Your future is full of possibilities. Open your mind, dive in, and give them a try!