Monday, November 21, 2011

The Key to Happiness


And so it begins...Thanksgiving, Hanukkah, Christmas, and more. I know we got an extra hour of sleep when we turned the clocks back - but really? I'm not ready for this! How about ten more hours of sleep and a few days off from the world? We could all use this, right? As I prepare my holiday shopping gift list, I am reminded of gifts that cost the least but mean the most.

Last year, my husband and son got me a key to our home that was bright green with dragon flies on it. You see, every night when I came home, I had two keys that looked the same and I had trouble telling them apart. They solved my griping with a beautiful key that stands out on my keyring. Most importantly, every time I use it, I am reminded not only of my family but of how lucky I am to have a home. It is my moment of bliss before I enter -- and it reminds me to be thankful for what I have in life.

All too often we take what we have for granted. We complain and want other things. The key to happiness is being thankful for what you have and those you have in your life. It is the little things - like a hug before you leave, a reassuring smile, and a laugh when the pressure gets a bit too much. It is a piece of chocolate during a hectic day. Or thinking of a loved one who has passed on and knowing what he/she would say over something funny that happened today. It is listening to your favorite song and getting your groove on. And it is tucking yourself in at night with the hope for a better tomorrow.

Need that perfect present for the person who has everything? Buy them a colorful key that will unlock the door to happiness. The things that cost the least often mean the most. Here's hoping everyone will keep this in mind during the upcoming holiday season.

For more on meaningful giving, you're invited to my free talk at the Flint Public Library in Middleton on Thursday, December 1st from 1pm-2pm, entitled "Celebrating the Joy of Giving". Hope to see you there!